Bornwear Packer Review

Let’s dive into this review and check out the Bornwear packers! If you haven’t heard of them before, you’re not alone—they’re a small, trans-owned company making waves with their customizable packers. Supporting small trans-owned businesses? Yes, please!

Bornwear’s packers come in two sizes that are almost indistinguishable from each other (you’ll see what I mean), and you can add a stroker insert or some ridges if that’s your thing. Plus, they offer an impressive 66 color options, which is practically a rainbow of possibilities for your prosthetic needs!

One quirky thing about Bornwear is their ordering system. They tend to open up sales in waves, likely because they’re managing everything solo and need to catch up on orders. It’s a bit of a wait-and-see situation, but totally worth it. So, join me as we explore what makes Bornwear’s packers stand out from the crowd!

The Not-so-Great

• Ridges: Ridges on a packer seem odd. Why? Because packers aren’t for sex. But hey, maybe they’re for a bit of extra texture while jacking off.
• Hair Magnet: Like all silicone products, it attracts cat hair.
• Tab: The tab might bother you, but don’t worry—you can snip it off!

Unboxing

Opening the box, you’ll be greeted by a sleek black satin-like bag cradling the packer(s). It’s discreet, classy, and doubles as a handy storage bag. When I first peeked inside and saw the packers, I got a little giddy – they’re perfectly small and not too over-the-top or bulgy. Just the way I like it! Plus, the look and feel of these little guys had me intrigued. But more on that juicy stuff below!

Each shipping box and customs form is different depending on the company. If you are unsure if the company you are ordering from has discrete shipping, be sure to contact them prior to ordering. 

Color

Let’s dive into the color options! Bornwear boasts a impressive range of skin tones, thanks to their nifty chart featuring 66 different shades. I got to try out both a lighter and a darker shade, and let me tell you, having reviewed prosthetics for over a decade, these shades are pretty spot-on. That said, while there’s a great selection, it’s worth noting that even with 66 options, there’s still a bit of room for more diversity in darker skin tones. Overall, though, Bornwear is making strides in the right direction

Size

Okay, I’m going to be real, when I first saw these, I thought they were the same size. I had to turn them to their sides to see the difference. It’s very subtle and literally feels like a game of “spot the difference.” The packer comes in Standard and Petite. You can choose a flat back, ridges, or a stroker (choice of 2 sizes).

Petite:

Full Dimensions:
Weight: 3.5oz (99g)
Shaft Length: 3.75” (9.5cm)
Overall Length: 4.5” (11.5cm)
Max Girth: 3.75” (9.5cm)
Max Width: 2” (5cm)

Standard:

Full Dimensions:
Weight: 4.5oz (127g)
Shaft Length: 4” (10cm)
Overall Length: 4.75” (12cm)
Max Girth: 4” (10cm)
Max Width: 2.25” (5.7cm)

I honestly feel like there isn’t much of a difference in size or feel. You’ll see in the packing photos and videos below what I mean!

Material and Feel

These packers are made of 100% silicone and feel pretty great. They’re not the most detailed, but for $35, they’re a total steal. They’ve got a nice squishiness to them, though I should mention they can be a little tacky/sticky. Not overly so, but you’ll notice it. They come powdered when you order them, and you can always powder them up later to combat that tackiness.

The material feels super durable, so no worries about unexpected tears or rips. Just keep in mind, if you wear this with an o-ring style harness, the shaft might eventually start to rip away from the balls. This is a common issue with almost every packer out there if you’re using an o-ring.

Since this is a single-pour silicone packer, it doesn’t have an inner core or anything that adds extra realism. But for a single pour, it’s really nice!

Now, about the options for the back/tab: you can choose flat, ridges, or a stroker hole size of either .5” or .75”. The ridges had me a bit puzzled. Ridges are usually found in prosthetics for masturbation or sex, not packing. Maybe if you hold it against your junk and jack off, the ridges will rub on you? Honestly, I didn’t feel them while packing, and I don’t see much point in them. I’d prefer a flat back.

STROKER

As for the stroker aspect, there aren’t many packers out there with integrated strokers. There’s Jack from New York Toy Collective, some from Axolom, and maybe one or two others. It’s an interesting concept because you’re not typically using a packer to masturbate with. However, I will say that Bornwear did a really good job. The stroker aspect is really nice, the ridges inside feel good, and that SUCTION! WOW! Incredible. Just look at how hard I had to pull to remove it from my finger. So yes, you can use this as a stroker and jack off with it. Most masturbation sleeves on the market don’t have balls, so if you’re someone who wants those balls with your stroker, I would recommend this for sure!

Packing

There are two size options for packing with this packer, and while I don’t see a huge difference between them, I wanted to make sure to show you the comparison so you can decide for yourself which size might be best. Personally, I have to say, I love this packer and how it looks in my Cake Bandit packing underwear. Seriously, no joke, I adore a nice small bulge. It’s the perfect balance—I like knowing there’s a packer there without always feeling it pressing against me or getting in the way.

With this packer, whether you choose the smaller or larger size, you get that ideal subtle bulge. It’s enough to give you that confidence boost without being overly noticeable or uncomfortable. I’ve tried a lot of packers, and many of them either feel too bulky or too small to make any difference. This one hits that sweet spot perfectly. It feels natural, and I can go about my day without constantly being reminded I’m packing, which is a huge plus.

Petite:

Standard:

So, whether you prefer the slightly smaller or the slightly larger option, this packer offers a great look and feel that fits seamlessly into daily life. If you’re anything like me and appreciate a discrete yet noticeable bulge, this packer (in either size) will definitely do the trick for you.

Real Feel Test™

It feels pretty realistic, like that perfect middle ground where you’re not super soft but also not fully hard. You know, kind of like when you’re just about to be turned on and there’s that subtle firmness. It’s that “right before the fun starts” kind of feeling.

Cleaning and Care

Let’s talk maintenance! It’s super important to clean this product before and after each use. Thanks to its 100% silicone makeup, keeping it squeaky clean is a breeze. You can simply wash it with hot, soapy water or pop it in the dishwasher’s top rack for an easy cleanup.

Now, if you ever need to sterilize it, just boil it in water for 3-5 minutes. Because it’s silicone, boiling is totally safe and effective. No worries about melting or mishaps here!

Oh, and a little tip: if it ever feels a tad sticky after cleaning (though that’s rare), a light dusting of cornstarch or other rejuvenating powders will keep it silky smooth. Pro tip for darker skin tones: mix in a bit of cocoa powder with your cornstarch to match your shade—voila, problem solved!And please, avoid talcum powder like the plague (seriously, it’s been linked to some serious health issues). I’ve got a whole article on that if you’re curious about the dangers.

Storage

Stick with the original packaging or opt for a trusty natural canvas bag to store this product. Keep it cool, dry, and tucked away in a dark spot, like your favorite dresser drawer. Oh, and here’s a fun fact: storing it alongside other similar materials can lead to a bizarre morphing situation—trust me, not a fun surprise!

Sometimes, these products can get a bit oily, but fear not! A canvas bag works like a charm to soak up any moisture and keep things in top shape. Think of it as giving your packer its own little spa retreat—a canvas oasis away from the chaos of your closet.

Pro Tip: Before you tuck this packer away in its cozy little bag, give it a light dusting of cornstarch. Even though it’s not sticky or tacky, this little trick can help extend its life and keep it in tip-top shape. It’s like giving your packer a spa treatment! Trust me, it’s always a good practice to pamper your packer a bit.

Final Thoughts

Overall, the Bornwear packer brings a lot to the table with its 100% silicone build, making it both durable and skin-safe. The packer’s affordability at $35 is a major plus, and the added bonus of supporting a trans-owned company makes it an even better choice. The suction power on the packer-stroker is impressive, and the customization options, including a wide range of colors, are a nice touch.

However, there are a few quirks to be aware of. The ridges on the packer seem a bit unnecessary, especially since packers aren’t typically used for sex. It’s also a bit of a hair magnet, and the tab might be bothersome for some, though it can be snipped off. Despite these minor issues, the Gen5 packer offers a great balance of realism, comfort, and functionality, making it one of the best options available on the market right now.