What is Packing?
Packing is one of the many creative necessary ways that trans and gender non-confirming individuals have managed to ease bottom dysphoria. It involves sticking something in your pants – usually made of silicone, fabric, or even a condom full of hair gel – to create a bulge and give the appearance of a penis.
There is no one “correct” way to pack, and everyone has their own methods and preferences, much like actual penises. As trans people have gained representation and acceptance over the past years, companies have worked even harder to create products that cater to the community. There are soft packers, pack n’ plays, stand-to-pee devices, and 4-in-1 devices. Soft packers are prosthetics that replicate the average flaccid bulge. They can’t be used for much other than packing or paperweights, and were originally sold as novelty toys.
Pack n’ plays are, as the name suggests, used for both packing and penetration, either using internal firmness or an insertable rod. Stand-to-pee devices are used to pee standing up, and can be extremely unrealistic or indistinguishable from a genuine penis. 4/3/2-in-1 packers combine 2 or more features of other prosthetics.
When first experimenting with bulges, a lot of trans/GNC folks use a bundle of socks, since this is easily accessible and raises no questions. A step up from socks are fabric packers, sewn into the appearance of a penis. There are also foam inserts, which is a great option for nonbinary folks. They can be worn in any underwear with a ball pouch, and give the appearance of a bulge without the weight or feeling of a packer against your body. Unfortunately, the appearance and texture of socks and fabric packers doesn’t cut it for some folks.
A common brand name among trans folks is Mr. Limpy. This is because they offer one of the cheapest and most durable starter packers, available in 4 lengths. Disappointingly, as is the case with most packer companies, they only offer 3 color variations and they’re quite light. It’s made from an elastomer material rather than silicone, so it’s soft and squishy. If you’re looking for something a bit more realistic feeling, you can try a packer made from silicone. They’re more expensive but provide a more accurate weight and feeling as opposed to their cyberskin siblings. Whatever the material of your soft packer, it’s always a good idea to have some corn starch or other packing dust on hand to keep it from getting sticky. NEVER use talcum powder! It’s been linked to cervical cancer and other serious complications. For more information, please click here.
Next up we have pack n’ plays. These packers can be difficult to wear daily, but in the right moment can provide a huge relief from gender dysphoria. Many pack n’ plays are dildos that have the ability to bend and curve downward. Because of the internal rod it can sometimes look like you have a big ol’ boner, so we wouldn’t recommend wearing them to the office (unless you’re into that sort of thing).
umber One Laboratory – Model Sport STP – $70
Number One Laboratory – Flip n’ Tuck STP – $164
FTM Pitstop – Jimmy STP – $99
Emisil – STP 3rd Generation – $512.78
Emisil – Compact STP – $110
Calexotics Packer Gear – STP Packer – $15
New York Toy Collective – Sam STP – $75
Number One Laboratory – Number One STP – $52
Reel Magik – STP/STPetite – $439 – $519
Banana Prosthetics – STP 1 – $100
Transthetics – EZP – $195
Pros:
- Great if you are someone with dysphoria who needs to look down while you pee and see a penis
- Depending on the model, you are able to pack nicely with it in your pants
- Way more options in terms of skin tone, however, there are some companies who only offer 2-3 shades.
- More variety in shapes and sizes
Cons:
- The more realistic looking the prosthetic is, the more expensive. STPs can range from $15 to $500+ (usd)
- Depending on the model, packing with one of these STPs means it needs to be facing sideways in your underwear. This is not something that is comfortable.
There are also STPs on the market that are packaged as 3-in-1’s or 4-in-1’s, also known as “pack and plays” This means the device is not only good for packing and peeing. It is also designed to be used for penetrative sex and/or masturbation. We have a full article explaining the ins and outs of these devices here.
Here are some examples of Pack and Plays:
Peacock – GEN4X – $189 – $219+
Emisil – Erect Penis ER01 – $547.21
Gendercat – Dual Texture Hard Prosthetic – $269 – $499
Reel Magik – Pack n Play – $499 – $1000+
There are packers out there that are ONLY meant for packing and do not include a funnel or cup for peeing. Read all about those here.
To conclude, STPs are devices that are used to help someone pee standing up. Some look like penises, and some do not. If STPs are not what you are looking for, make sure to look at our “What is a packer?” and “What is a Pack and Play” articles.
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